Aggression With a Smile, Deception of a Female Bully

"Bullying is persistent unwanted aggressive behavior"

What To Do If You Encounter the Smiling Bully?

There is no one solution for dealing with a bully. A bully generally falls in one of the three categories -- physical bully, verbal bully, or cyber social bullying. The strategy applied, depends on the type of bullying displayed.

Known Weapons of a Bully With a Smile

One of the most deceptive bullies is the bully with a smile. It appears that the bully with a smile most often is female. She is very deceptive, and uses social medial and gossip as her weapon of choice.

Strategy of the Smiling Bully

The smiling bully generally smiles when they see their victim, because they are aware of the ill act they have committed, knowing the victim is not remotely aware of the negative deed they performed. For example, they smile because of the rumors they have started, and strive to get near you to see your reaction. They feel empowered once you receive the bad news. Smiling bullies uses social media and spread their venom effectively. Their smile light up their evil thoughts after using cyber social medial to destroy your reputation or good name. One of the dangers of social medial is that things can be posted without truth, correction, or good will. The victim cannot fight back effectively because the bully can hide in secret without identification, and smile while the victim suffer.

Actions to Take for A Smiling Bully

1.Get the Facts-- Let her know being a bully and bullying is wrong. Ask how she acquired the habit and why she does it. You may not like her answer, or she may not answer, but you must ask.

2. Confront bullying -- Do not let any bullying behavior go unanswered. Don't become a bully yourself , Have a sound plan for correcting the problem.

3.Plan Strategy-- Bullies are generally depressed or emotional in some way. They often feel useless and unloved, with a desire for power and recognition. Sometimes they are simply jealous, or have been bullied them self. They retaliate out of emotional and psychological pain. Devise a strategy and implement a plan for a female who is a smiling bully

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